May vs. Might: understand the difference

In English, we often use modal verbs to express possibility and uncertainty. Two modals that cause a bit of confusion are "may" and "might." While they may seem similar, understanding their subtle differences is crucial for improving your communication skills.

In this blog post, we will take a look at the distinctions between "may" and "might" and see some clear examples to help you use them correctly.

Usage and Meaning

"May" is used to express possibility or permission. It also tells us that something is more likely to happen than "might."

"Might" is also used to express possibility, but it indicates a lower degree of probability than "may." It often implies a more hypothetical or uncertain situation.

Talking about probability:

• "May": We use "may" when talking about something that is likely to happen or permitted.

Example:

• She may join us for dinner tonight. (There is a good chance she will be there.)

• I may have to leave the party early. (I’m pretty sure that I will have to leave early.)

• "Might": When we use "might" it means that something is less likely to happen or that we have doubts about it. We usually use "might" when we are making assumptions without much reasoning behind our ideas. It suggests a lower probability or likelihood compared to "may."

Example:

• I might be late to the meeting. (There is a possibility, but this sentence tells us that it is more of a guess, we could just as likely be on time.)

• It might rain tomorrow. (There is a chance, but not very high.)

Polite Requests:

• "May" is generally considered more polite when making requests or asking for permission.

  • NOTE: this form is not often used if the subject is not “I.” It is grammatically correct to say “may she visit us for the summer?” but I personally have never heard anyone say that. So if the subject is not “I,” then I suggest using could. As in “could she visit us for the summer.”

Example:

May I borrow your pen, please?

May I have a cup of tea please?

May I use your phone?

May I…..

• Might: we used to use might in the same way as may for polite requests, but not any more. You may see this usage if you watch an old movie, but we don’t say “might I go with Tim to the park?” anymore, just say “may.”

Summary

Understanding the distinction between "may" and "might" is essential for clear and accurate communication in English. Remember that "may" suggests a higher degree of likelihood, while "might" indicates a lower degree of probability or a more speculative situation. By mastering the usage of these modals, you will be able to express possibility and uncertainty with confidence and more dexterity in your communication. Practice using them in context and pay attention to the subtle differences to further enhance your English language skills.

Note: In some contexts, "may" and "might" can be used interchangeably without a significant difference in meaning. The examples provided here focus on the typical distinctions.

Make your own sentnces and post them in the comments!